Saya masih memilih untuk menulis di alam siber secara percuma walaupun sesekali ada yang mencadangkan agar saya menulis buku mengenai infertiliti. Sebelum mencedok atau memetik 'ilmu' dari laman ini, anda tidak perlu meminta kebenaran tetapi diingatkan membuat semakan sendiri terlebih dahulu dengan doktor anda atau guru anda sebelum mem'forward'nya kepada orang lain dan memikul tanggungjawab akibatnya. Pohon doa kesejahteraan dan limpahan rahmat Allah ke atas guru-guru saya dan juga pesakit-pesakit saya yang banyak mengajar saya bidang ini. (peringatan untuk diri sendiri) Segala pujian bagi Allah. Mudah-mudahan, taubat saya diterimaNya dan segala dosa saya diampunkanNya serta saya terus dilimpahi rahmatNya. Sekiranya ada kesalahan, pohon dibetulkan, saya terbuka kepada teguran.

Sebarang percubaan berbentuk komen atau soalan bertujuan mengiklankan apa sahaja perniagaan atau blog sendiri tidak akan disiarkan. Blog ini bukanlah untuk iklan menjual barang. Peace.....

Monday, 2 June 2014

Perhatian (pesakit IVF Jun 2014) dan Selingan

Selamat bercuti.

Foto untuk dikongsi bersama sambil menghayati keindahan ciptaanNya.


Enchanting sunset view dari PLUS highway.
(err.....bukan saya yang memandu waktu ini tau)


Juga untuk renungan bagi mereka yang masih belum berjaya hamil dan sesiapa sahaja yang lain yang ditimpa 'kesusahan' dan merasakan dirinya 'malang' ;



renungkan dan ingatlah lagi;


Every cloud has a silver lining.



"Dan sesungguhnya akan Kami berikan cabaran kepadamu dengan SEDIKIT ketakutan, kelaparan, kekurangan harta, jiwa dan buah-buahan. Dan berikanlah berita gembira kepada orang yang sabar. 

(Iaitu) orang yang apabila ditimpa musibah, mereka mengucapkan : Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un"

Al-Baqarah : 155-156.




Saya juga masih bercuti sekolah lagi. 

Saya masih meneruskan tempoh berpantang bercuti bersempena cuti sekolah anak walaupun di mana sahaja termasuk di KL demi menghormati 'mother-dotter bonding session' :))



ACHTUNG BITTE
Attention please
(TOLONG BERI PERHATIAN)


Kepada pesakit-pesakit IVF bulan Jun ini;




Pohon IKUT SETIAP ayat yang saya telah beritahu secara lisan dan juga yang tertulis pada borang IVF anda, kerana setiap satu mungkin berbeza daripada pesakit yang lain. Beri perhatian kepada perkara besar mahupun kecil. Pay attention to little things....




Little things are more exciting as they make you wonder (and be amazed at) how on earth can a person be so meticulous and 'OCD' ? 
(The above miniature people ara less than 2cm tall and there are millions of them

Teliti setiap satu ya.





dan sebagai pesanan tambahan (anda telahpun diberi pesanan supaya terus menghubungi saya apabila didatangi haid);


- Whatsapp DAN (bukan atau) email saya.

- Saya akan balas, cuma mungkin LAMBAT beberapa jam atau paling lama pun sehari.

- Jangan risau, selagi saya belum balas, SAMBUNG ubat yang sedang diambil. Jika habis, beli lagi. 

- (sekali lagi) Jangan risau walaupun anda masih belum memulakan suntikan rangsangan. Kaedah saya untuk anda mungkin tidak sama seperti kaedah saya untuk pesakit lain.

- Sekiranya pada Jumaat akan datang ini (6hb Jun) anda didatangi haid dan saya masih belum membalas whatsapp atau emel anda, sila BERHENTI dahulu ubat yang sedang diambil ie jangan ambil ubat tersebut pada waktu malam hari Jumaat itu. Pil terakhir adalah pada Jumaat pagi itu. Itu sahaja. JANGAN mulakan apa-apa suntikan dahulu. TUNGGU sehingga saya balas (tengah malam/awal pagi Sabtu 7hb). Jika saya masih belum membalas, sila whatsapp sekali lagi pada pagi Sabtu tersebut.

- Sesi 'soal-jawab' ini hanya berkaitan dengan ubat/suntikan IVF sahaja. Soalan-soalan lain lazimnya akan kekal sebagai sesi 'soal TANPA jawab' sahaja, harap maklum dan jangan berkecil hati ya.




Sekian.

Sementara itu, untuk santapan minda

See and think,


If some people can be this meticulous, what excuse do we have to do 'cin cai' work?




To start with, there are many of these miniature people.

When I say many, I really mean a lot!


Imagine....

Within just one square metre, I repeat; ONE sq m; they can do this.


 Kasi dekat lagi sebelum ambil gambar

Then zoom in.
You see?




Again,




See this?


Now, zoom in again (otherwise you cannot see their expression/action)



We, well she can spend more than 30 minutes on each sq metre section, and there are hundreds (if not thousands) of sections. If the miniature people are just below 2cm tall, imagine how small the sheep and dogs are.


sanngup membongkok nak ambil gambar ni....

...and she would capture what she called interesting scenes.....

......every handphone-sized sub-section tells a story....



...and she would also 'peep' inside the train....


....and looked into the inside of the building.....






There are so many interesting sections that would either make you want to just have a glance (as you'd be afraid that there wouldn't be enough time to see all) or made you stop for a while and 'enjoy' every little thing they'd worked on and now they want to show you. 


Another example,



At the airport public carpark (yes, public carpark only, not yet the rest of the huge airport )




 ...you can see this.....



 ...and this...

...and this :))
(sempat mengata)




.....and here, you can see....

...this...

...and this....


....and this...

...and many others too....



....and that was just at the airport public carpark section.

...in this room where the ongoing video was played and the arrivals and departures of the airplanes were on time as displayed on the monitor. Not to mention almost real take-offs and landings of the model airplanes at the end of the picture, according to the time stated on the electronic board.


When in actual fact, this attraction is famous for its huge network of trains (of course with railways). 




....one of the rooms...
Wait! No! Not one. A quarter of that one of many rooms.



Of course, their famous (miniature) port is also there.

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Now, ask ourselves again;


Where do we position ourselves?

How meticulous or 'cin cai' do we want to do our job?

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and answer honestly.


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Many who have known my Clone well can guess what's in her sometimes-it's-Calvin-like mind. Sampai habis bateri hp dia and she then used mine to continue taking pictures. With serious looks as if she was deep in thought, taking close-up then zoomed-in pictures, she would sometimes turn to me with a big grin;


"Ma, imagine if ...... "
(I know that you want to know what she said, but I'm not telling, but then again, it's not difficult to make a guess)

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then;


"Ma, I want to come here again tomorrow!"


Haaaah?   Another 'a few' (read:many) hours on little things again tomorrow....?


Layan sajalah, Labu.
Dah namanya mother-'dotter' bonding session.



So;


Meet My Clone
(She has grown up, the picture on my profile pic was years ago)


aka my 'copy-paste' (what her friends sometimes call her)

aka my photocopy (what my Prof refers her as)

She is now 15.





Dari jauh, memang muka kami serius/sombong pun. Bila pakai cermin mata, saya nampak macam gurubesar yang garang. Nak buat macamana....




 at times we are like sisters or even bff




but most of the times, we are quarrel buddies.
She still likes to make funny faces.



Susah nak dapatkan gambar proper dia senyum macam ni. This smile was unexpected because before this take she gave funny/weird faces, that's why muka saya pula yg serius.




In the same morning before check-out today, she can be really funny and the next hour,  really sweet.




She was then 8 or 9, I can't remember. Kami baru lepas 'bergaduh' masa ni. The conversation usually ended the same;

"Tak nak kawan Mama"

"Habis tu...Mama nak kawan dengan siapa?"

"Mama kawan sorang-sorang"

and that made her feel that she had won the quarrel and all was well again until the next quarrel episode.


This is the same person who still causes me headaches (at much less frequency now) and prompts me to take leave whenever there's school holiday.






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